Friends = Finders = dFiners

Friends... am not talking about the wonderfully-televised decade-long enchantment, but about more earthly beings who make a great effect on whom you grow into as.. But, is it possible to stick around with them, with each one's life pointing to a different direction on the life's compass, though pivoted about a central knot .. I've been nurturing a thought for quite sometime & it's evolving into a Tantalus' cup. The more I get closer to it, the further it gets.. That thought is to replenish contacts with my best friends, in fact easier, because of the sparse count ... but with every phase in my life, they get replaced, though jus' temporarily, by new people & the superlative "best" seems to be losing it's superlativity, because you call someone your best friend, now, and then ten years down the line, in a different place, in a different phase, someone else becomes your best friend. So, seems like "best" really means "best as yet"..

Now, onto the anagram "Finders", I guess, the word "Friends" was clearly coined with the anagram hidden in it & with the expectation that someone would be able to crack this life-size maxim at 3:16AM. Finders... Friends are finders because they find your perpetual positives, negligible negatives and still find you interesting, besides helping you find where your heart points to.. Disney's guiding principle was to Reach the heart, before you get to the brain. Friends reach your heart before really getting into your brain. Hordes of readers would've loved being with someone, even before they get to know the other's firstname, leave alone lastname. People who find the resonant wavelength gel in no time.. Finders... Making a more crude attempt at anagrams, "Friends" are "d-finers".. Definers... "Tell me who your friends are, I'll tell who you are".. Weirdly Similar.. Find Friends & let them define you...

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